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Notice Anger Earlier

Recognize early cues, plan a safer pause, and choose a responsible next step.

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Participant worksheet
Format
PDF · 2 pages · US Letter
Audience
Adults; personal reflection or professional facilitation.
Time
About 5-25 minutes; follow the sheet
Cost
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Inside this resource

  • Identify early anger cues.
  • Write a safe pause and responsible next step.

How to use it

  1. Use a mild frustration or fictional example.
  2. Complete the reflection page before the practice plan.
  3. Rehearse a respectful pause and review one attempt.

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ANGER MANAGEMENT / PARTICIPANT WORKSHEET / 1 OF 2
Notice Anger Earlier
15-20 minutes. Choose a mild everyday frustration or a fictional example. You can skip any prompt. Anger
is a feeling; you remain responsible for your actions.
1 / What happened?
Describe what a camera would have recorded. Leave out guesses about intentions.
2 / What did I notice first?
Body cues, thoughts, feelings, or urges. Example: tight shoulders, "I am being ignored," speaking faster.
3 / How strong was it?
My intensity from 0 (none) to 10 (highest): ____ . What is a sign I can notice before it gets there?
4 / What was my interpretation?
What meaning did I give the event? What else could be true without excusing harmful behavior?


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ANGER MANAGEMENT / PARTICIPANT WORKSHEET / 2 OF 2
My Pause & Repair Plan
The aim is a safer, more deliberate response. A pause is not a punishment, threat, or way to control
someone else.
5 / My early action
When I notice __________________, I will __________________. Choose a safe pause, grounding, or staff support.
6 / Words I can practice
Try: "I need a pause to settle. I can check back at ____ if it is safe and appropriate." In a program, follow staff directions.
7 / My next responsible step
What can I say, clarify, or repair once calm? Respect the other person's choice about contact.
8 / Practice once, then review
By __________ I will practice __________. What happened? What helped? What will I adjust?
Safety first
If there is a threat of harm, get to safety and follow your program's procedures; call 911 for
immediate danger. This sheet is not a violence assessment or a substitute for specialized care for
abusive behavior.
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